Monday, November 12, 2012

Fear Not; I Am with You

Scripture:God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline.” 2 Timothy 1:7.
What are you afraid of, and why are you afraid?
At this time of year, people throughout the ages have felt spooked when the summer’s time of plenty gives way for the coldness and death of greenery that come in late autumn. Ancient Celts believed that the line between the worlds of the dead and living became blurred during this season. After Christianity took hold, people in those regions still held on to superstitions. They fought their fears with costumes, lanterns, and community events.
But God tells us that we don’t need superstition. He has conquered all evil – even death – and we, as His children, have nothing to fear!
Do Christians Fear?
Through the Bible, God warns us to beware of evil: “Stay alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour.” (1 Peter 5:8) We have to be on the lookout for all kinds of evil. We don’t want to be taken by surprise; we want to “watch and pray”. However, we know that we don’t have to fear, because God also tells us in Isaiah 41:10, “Don’t be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be discouraged, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you.” We can rely on our loving Father to protect us when evil and danger appear! If someone or something is attacking us, we know we’re “in the right”, and can easily remember to pray against that kind of evil. But what about the evil within – when we give in to the temptation to sin? We Christians are still human, and through that humanity, we have inherited a sinful nature. And there’s nothing we ourselves can do to keep from having to pay the penalty for sin – death: “The wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life through Christ Jesus our Lord.” (Romans 6:23) As sinners, we must rely on God’s grace for forgiveness and salvation. We can depend ONLY on our Lord to save us. Jesus took all our sin onto Himself and paid the price – death and separation from the Father!
We Don’t Have to Be Afraid!
But we know that the grave COULD NOT hold our Lord! Because Jesus is part of God, the power of God worked a miracle so strong, that Christ triumphed over death, emerging from His tomb after the three days.
Do you love your life so passionately that you’d hang on to it, no matter what? As Christians, we are instructed to follow Christ’s example: to be willing to let go of, or even sacrifice, our earthly lives, because we know that the eternal life that comes after is even better.
The Apostle Paul gave us an example of a good attitude about this: “I want to know Christ and experience the mighty power that raised Him from the dead. I want to suffer with Him, sharing in His death, so that one way or another I will experience the resurrection from the dead!” (Philippians 3:10-11)
 Paul’s words reinforce for us that we have nothing to fear – nothing bad on earth, even death, can compare with God’s glory in eternal life. The life of Jesus calls us to be His passionate followers, loving and trusting Him, clinging to Him more than our earthly lives.
Instead, We Can Believe
We trust Jesus to take the guilt of our sin away by the sacrifice of His death. Therefore, we can trust His promise to fulfill God’s purpose after our earthly deaths. Jesus said, “I am the Resurrection and the Life. Anyone who believes in Me will live, even after dying. Everyone who lives in Me and believes in Me will never ever die.” John 11:25-26
 What a miracle; what a promise!
One of the first steps of becoming a Christian is to believe that Jesus is part (the Son) of God, and that the miracles of His life, death, and resurrection can teach us to live righteous lives, guarantee the forgiveness of our sins, and promise us the life everlasting at His side, in Heaven. He told us that when we believe in Him and strive to live our lives righteously, as He did, He will conquer death in us.
Jesus gave us the ultimate examples of faith; prayer; loving; cooperating, or working together, with friends; and more. His was a sinless existence. And although we still might sin sometimes because of our humanity, we can try to live lives like Jesus’s, following God’s will even to death, without needing to fear it.         
  
An Eternal Life
 God has given us a marvelous gift. We can live our lives in freedom from the bondage of sin! Although we were born into sin and death as our human inheritance, God has adopted us as His children, and we have a new inheritance.
St. Paul wrote that, “Just as death came into the world through a man, now the resurrection from the dead has begun through another Man.” (1 Corinthians 15:21).
Jesus takes us from the legacy of death into the legacy of rebirth and life everlasting.
Because of all this, we MUST live in a way that is pleasing to God. We want to please our Father. Since He has given us so much, we must eagerly give our lives back to Him. We have a new inheritance, a rebirth; we no longer live in sin and face death. Let our earthly lives reflect our heavenly lives!
St. Paul summed it up: “Just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, even so we also should walk in newness of life.” (Romans 6:4) 

Saturday, November 10, 2012

PASTORIAL COUNSEL AND ROLES IN MARRIAGE

 Memory Verse
“But who so hearkeneth unto me shall dwell safety, and shall be quiet from fear of evil.” Proverbs 1:33.
BIBLE PASSAGE: Proverbs 1:1-10
INTRODUCTION
  Counseling is the process of giving pieces of advice or useful suggestions to other individuals by a qualified person in order to help them solve their problems either in the present or for their future. Everyone needs such pieces of advice or counsels at a particular point in time so as to guide against taking steps of error. The Scripture says that “…..in the multitude of counselors there is safety.” (Proverbs 11:14b)  therefore as marriage is a sacred institution that requires divine guidance before being entered into, such counsels should be given a prime of place.
OUTLINES
1. CHARACTERISTICS OF PASTORAL COUNSEL
2. ROLES OF PASTORAL COUNSEL IN MARRIAGE


CHARACTERISTICS OF PASTORAL COUNSEL
i. Pastoral counsel as divine instruction is usually aided or enhanced by the manifestation of the gifts of the Holy Spirit in the life of the genuine Counselor as in (a) Word of Wisdom, (b) Word of Knowledge,
 (c) Discerning of Spirit – 1 Corinthians 12:7-8.
ii. Pastoral counsel, which is usually from seasoned men of God, is like reality therapy Proverbs 15:22.
iii. Pastoral counsel is not motivated or influenced by personal interest or propaganda sentiments as in the case of the withdrawal of Micah from David as wife by King Saul -1 Samuel 25:44.
iv. It is such an advice given after having prayerfully requested from and listened to God by a seasoned minister of the gospel for inspirational guidance Psalm 5:3; Deut. 29:29; Daniel 9:3-4; 2 Cor. 1:11.
v. Pastoral counsel seeks to foster the happiness of both the person being counseled and the counselor Prov. 15:23; Prov. 27:9.
ROLES OF PASTORAL COUNSEL IN MARRIAGE
i. Just as devastating and destructive problem is to one's life, so greatly relieving and comforting is the timely divine or pastoral counsel - Ruth 3:1-3.
ii. It acts as veritable tools that cannot be brushed aside in the process of choice or decision making - JoeI3:14.
iii. It gives no room or chance for gamblers in the church where the counseling unit .for intending Christian couple is being handled or well coordinated by genuine ministers of God. i.e. it prevents young men or women from dating more than one suitor at a time Provo 13:20; PS. 73:24.
iv. It brings about decent take-off of courtship between two children of God as the Pastor becomes the mediator between the intending young couple Psalm 11 :3; Isaiah 58:12.
v. It shows the young contemporary adults that marriage is not bondage or an unavoidable entanglement Jer. 23:22; Acts 20:27-28.
CONCLUSION
Pastoral counsel is usually borne out of divine inspiration and is meant to show the possible ways out of certain problems. It also guides on what to do so as not to fall into the same problems over and over again - Proverbs 11:14.

Thursday, October 11, 2012

RESTITUTION

Memory Verse
"And Zacchaeus stood, and said unto the Lord; Behold, Lord, the half of my goods I give to the poor; and if I have taken anything from any man by false accusation, I restore him fourfold." Luke 19:8
BIBLE PASSAGE: Exodus 22:1-13
INTRODUCTION
Restitution is commanded by God to enable us follow peace with all men. It is an act of putting right what has been done wrongly. It is divine restoration of all things to their original order. In this lesson, we shall consider what restitution is and its blessings.

OUTLINES
1. WHY MAKE RESTITUTION?
2. EXAMPLES OF RESTITUTION IN THE BIBLE
3. SOME SPECIFIC RESTITUTION TO MAKE

WHY MAKE RESTITUTION?
We make restitution for three major reasons:
  1.  God commands it – Lev. 6:1-5; Ex. 22:10-13.
  2. To have a clear conscience towards God and towards man – 1 Sam. 12:1-5; Acts 24:16.
  3. It is the evidence of our conversion which shows our readiness to obey the scriptures Luke 19:8-9; Ezek. 33:14-16.
EXAMPLES OF RESTITUTION IN THE BIBLE
There are also examples of people who made restitution in the Bible. These include Abimelech, Joseph’s brothers, Old Testament kings and prophets, Zacchaeus, during the time of our Lord Jesus and the apostles – Gen. 20:6-9, 14; Gen. 50:15-19; 1 Kgs. 20:34; Neh. 5:11-12; Lk. 19:8-9; Acts 23:1-5; Philm. 10:17-19.      

SOME SPECIFIC RESTITUTION TO MAKE
a. We should return things that we have stolen, picked or converted to our own use but which belong to another person or to our place of work. These include our tithes and first fruits, the non-payment of which is robbery and which we must restore – Lev. 6:2-5; Lk. 19:8; Mal. 3:8; Lev. 5:14-16.
b. We should replace things we have destroyed which belong to another person - Ex.22:5-6; Ex.21:18-19.      
  1. We should also reconcile with people we quarrelled with in the past - Matt.5:23-25; Matthew 18:15-17.
  2. We should make restitution of all lies and things wrongly said about someone and which has affected the person or is presently causing trouble 2 Sam.16:5-8; 2 Sam.19:18-20; Acts23:1-5.
  3. Marriages contracted contrary to biblical standards should also be visited. Lawful parental demands should be granted while people who have married another person's spouse must prayerfully take steps towards restitution - Luke 3:8; Gen.20:14; Romans 2:13-16.



CONCLUSION
Do you have any restitution to make? Pray to God for help and take the right steps. The Holy Spirit will help you.

Monday, October 8, 2012

PROCRASTINATION


Memory Verse
"Boast not thyself of tomorrow; for thou knowest not what a day may bring forth." Proverbs 27:1
BIBLE PASSAGE: Luke 9:59- 62
INTRODUCTION
To procrastinate is to put off a required action until a future time. It means to defer or to postpone. Life is full of decisions and time is often of essence in these decisions. Procrastination is, therefore, a character flaw that affects millions of people in every walk of life. While it is regarded as normal for people to procrastinate, it can become a problem that can hinder normal life functioning. It cuts across all areas of life, from accepting Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior to attending to assignments by students and many other areas. It is our prayer that the Holy Spirit will teach us as we study in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
OUTLINES
1. CAUSES OF PROCRASTINATION
2. EFFECTS OF PROCRASTINATION
3. SOLUTION TO PROCRASTINATION

CAUSES OF PROCRASTINATION
People procrastinate because of their' personal convenience - Acts 24:25. This is a major reason people do not give their lives to God immediately they hear the word. Procrastination happens when people are sluggish and show spiritless attitude to the things of God - 2 Chr. 24:4­5. One other cause of procrastination is laziness - Proverbs 26:13-16; 10:4. When people allow worldly entanglement it could lead to procrastination - Gen. 19:16; Matthew 19:22.
Consideration of family pressure at the expense of God's business could lead to procrastination of God's business - Matthew 8:21; Luke 9:59-62. Elisha ran after Elijah immediately at the expense of family business - 1 Kings 19:20-21. Environmental distraction is another cause of procrastination - Eccl. 11: 4. We can add to this list.
EFFECTS OF PROCRASTINATION
One of the effects of procrastination is loss of fellowship and opportunities Matthew 25:11-12; Luke 13:24-25. Procrastination could cause one to be caught off guard and be met unprepared - Matthew 24:48-51. We could lose souls if we procrastinate in witnessing - Jeremiah 8:20.
SOLUTION TO PROCRASTINATION
Proper planning and constant reminder is a solution to procrastination - Luke 14:28. Priorities should be set right - Ecc. 3:1; Isaiah 56:12; Acts 24:25. Self discipline could help against procrastination. This includes the areas of eating: talking, watching TV, movies, use of telephone and other areas of distraction. It is always better to focus on today and not tomorrow - Matt. 6: 25-31. Always remember that you are here on earth temporarily and let this guide you in your commitment to the work of God - Hab. 2: 3; Matt. 24:48-51.
CONCLUSION
You may procrastinate but time does not. It keeps on moving. Time waits for no man and the lost time can never be regained. Today's duty that is put off till tomorrow usually gives you a double burden to bear. The best way is to do it at the proper time. Christ will come like a thief in the night. Repent now and do not postpone your salvation. Tomorrow might be too late - 2 Corinth: 6:2, Deut. 23:21, Ecc. 5:4, 12:1

Sunday, October 7, 2012

BE YE HOLY

Memory Verse
" .. ./ am the Almighty God; walk before me, and be thou perfect." Genesis 17:1b
BIBLE PASSAGE: Psalm 24:3-10
INTRODUCTION
In our last lesson, we considered why believers must be holy and some benefits of holiness. Today, we shall look further into the benefits· of holiness and why God does not condone unholy living.

OUTLINES
1. OTHER BENEFITS OF HOLINESS
2. WHY GOD DOES NOT CONDONE UNHOLY LIVING

OTHER BENEFITS OF HOLINESS
There are many rewards attached to holiness. One of them is answered prayers - Luke 1:13; Psalm 34:15-17. The tomorrow of a righteous person is determined by God Isaiah 3:10: Jer.29: 11. A man that fears and obeys God will enjoy divine health Exodus 15:26. He also enjoys supernatural provisions from the EI-Shaddai God - Psalm 92:12. The cup of a holy child will always overflow and as well enjoy overtaking blessings - Psalm 23:5; Deut. 28:1-2. Lastly, he that loves to do that which is right in God's presence will be victorious, promoted and endowed with supernatural anointing - Deut. 28:7; Hebrews 1 :9.
WHY GOD DOES NOT CONDONE UNHOLY LIVING
If two do not agree, they cannot walk together. God cannot condone sin because everything about Him is holy and hence Christians are commanded to be perfect in holiness, body, soul and spirit. Our glorious God lives in holiness. His throne is holy. The angels around are holy and holiness is their song. In fact, He also lives in a holy city. - Romans 6:19, 22; 2 Corinth. 7:1; Ephesi.ans 4:24; 1 Thess.4:7; Exodus 15:11; Psalm 47:8; Rev. 14:10; Rev. 4:8; Rev. 22:19.


CONCLUSION
A nation that fears God and lives righteously shall be exalted. Disobeying God’s instructions will lead to divine rejection and eternal condemnation. 1 Samuel 15:22-23; Revelations 22:14-15; Proverbs 14:34.


QUESTIONS
1. Supply the right answers to the question in Psalm 24:3.
2. What are the other benefits of holiness?
3. Why will God not condone ungodliness

Saturday, July 14, 2012

15 Things God Won't Ask Read this and then reflect on it. It's not the material things that matter..God won't ask what kind of car you drove, but will ask how many people you drove who didn't have transportation. God won't ask the square footage of your house, but will ask how many people you welcomed into your home. God won't ask about the fancy clothes you had in your closet, but will ask how many of those clothes helped the needy. God won't ask about your social status, but will ask what kind of class you displayed. God won't ask how many material possessions you had, butwill ask if they dictated your life. God won't ask what your highest salary was, but will ask if you compromised your character to obtain that salary. God won't ask how much overtime you worked, but will ask if you worked overtime for your family and loved ones. God won't ask how many promotions you received, but will ask how you promoted others. God won't ask what your job title was, but will ask if you reformed your job to the best of your ability. God won't ask what you did to help yourself, but will ask what you did to help others. God won't ask how many friends you had, but will ask how many people to whom you were a true friend. God won't ask what you did to protect your rights, but will ask what you did to protect the rights of others. God won't ask in what neighborhood you lived, but will ask how you treated your neighbours. God won't ask about the color of your skin, but will ask about the content of your character. God won't ask how many times your deeds matched your words, but will ask how many times they didn't.